Softly Dreaming is a unique and fun site created by women for women who love women. Whether you consider yourself lesbian, bi, transgendered, just curious or don't classify yourself at all. Whether you are fit, fat, thin, fun, boring, blonde, reddy, brunette, bald, butch, femme, androgenous, gender queer, a dolly diesel dyke, married, single, divorced, playing around, curious, attached, or want to explore the wide world of women who love women - Here is my tribute to you!

You will find tools to help you get into the dating game, approach that special someone, have your first girl on girl experience, add sizzle to your life, communicate with others, find books, videos, dvds, movies and hot clips, or hone your already keen tool chest.

Personally, I think we should all bring back the Art of Courtly Love. There was such a dance and so much ritual around professing your undieing love... Without actually professing your undieing love. There was mystery, romance, sweet nothings, and a sweet game of cat and mouse. But, here we are in the 21st century, and how we meet , what we do after we meet and how we approach relationships in general has changed quite a bit.

Poke around (no pun intended). Have fun. Contribute if you like, but always be respectful.